[livingwith]

in june of 07 my wife and i were ready to purchase our second home,we have twin 4 year old boys,and lets see it started at the closing table when i found out my wife had taken and did i dont know what with our life savings of 37 thousand dollars it really heated up after we left the closing table without sealing the deal i went to our bank my wife said they couldn’t release our savings account.
she had all sorts of stories as to why after leaving the title company we went to the bank so i...Read the full article

[bcjune]

I know how miserable you are. I understand all that you are going through. I have been bi-polar for as long as I can remember, but did not realize it or understand that that was what was wrong with me until I was feeling normal (which happened after my depressive state broke). I saw something on tv about bi-polar and I related to everything that woman had said. I had hurt my husband and my children for sooo long. We were in so much debt, I lost my temper numerous times, screaming at my husband and kids and being so depressed that I could not participate in life. My husband and I each secretly thought of leaving each other. Well, my point is, it likely may take her realizing, in a moment of clarity, what is wrong. Even then, sometimes it takes awhile for the right medication to work and it depends on her willingness to keep trying. That is so hard for someone who is bipolar. I have been on the right medicine for almost 2 years and feel like a real life has been given to me. Anyway, if I had not realized what the hell was wrong with me at that point, I would have hoped my husband and my kids would have left me. It would not have made MY life any better, it would have made it much more worse, but it shouldn't be about me, it should be about the kids. They need to be in a healthy relationship. Even though they would be without their mother and life would be hard for awhile, I think you and the kids need to get away. I wish you luck and strength.